Four Installations That Prevent You From Starting Earning

It is not for nothing that they say: “to break - not to build”. Because building, achieving, learning is always difficult. It is difficult to find a successful businessman or a successful person who was given everything easily and without difficulty. A lot depends on how you think about yourself, your achievements and opportunities. Often people do not believe in themselves, building up complexes and setting themselves the wrong attitudes. Together with psychologist Kristina Gribova, we will consider the most common.

Christina Gribova

Psychologist

Only children of wealthy parents become successful

This is a fairly common phrase used by many people trying to justify their laziness / failure / failure. It always seems that in a family where parents are wealthy, there are more opportunities for realization in life. This is partly true, but often it is the children of rich parents who do not know how to value money, and, therefore, are not adapted to earning money and accumulating it.

Also, this statement calms you down in advance and, as it were, justifies that you can do nothing, it still won't work, because you are not the offspring of a rich businessman. This is a mistaken attitude that needs to be transformed into "if I study / work hard, I will achieve whatever I want."

At my age, it's too late to change / start anything

In order to start a new stage, new actions are needed that would be different from your usual ones. If you want to work with a higher salary, you need to find a better job than you have now, if you want a new profession, you need to go to study, if you want to lose weight, you need to revise your diet and go in for sports. With this attitude, we are afraid to take responsibility and are afraid of difficulties. Many people often postpone great accomplishments until Monday, and then the stage "it's too late to do something" comes. It's never too late, the main thing is desire. Small steps towards the intended goal, but forward.

You can be happy only if you have …

A good position / a beautiful figure / a caring husband - then it would be completely different! It wouldn't be. These attitudes are fundamentally wrong and will never lead you to success. Thus, you immediately suppress your development, convincing yourself that everything depends on external factors and gifts of fate, but not on yourself. You are where you should be. Everything that surrounds you is your needs and what you want. Therefore, if you want to achieve a certain goal,

you should be guided by your perseverance and work, and not the subjunctive mood "if only."

A lot of money entails a lot of responsibility

This is the reason why many people sit for years in an unloved job with low wages, but without the desire to change anything. After all, a job change / new position / business opening are always associated with new efforts, responsibilities and responsibilities. I want to receive more, so that the conditions are better, but there is no desire to do something for this. It is necessary to expand your comfort zone and not be afraid of difficulties, otherwise you run the risk of trampling in this "swamp".