Femininity is not just a word. This is a state of mind, being in which you find harmony with yourself, become smoother, more graceful and, as a result, begin to attract successful men. However, this condition is far from congenital. Julia Lanske is a famous coach practicing interactive learning, she helps a woman transform consciousness and build relationships, create a family. Today she shares with the readers of BeautyHack working techniques and life hacks that will help you not to play the role of a sophisticated woman, but to actually become one.
Julia Lanske
coach, author of Julia Lanske's Life Transformation Boutique
External transformation
No matter how much you want to immediately demonstrate your rich inner world to a man, he simply will not be able to see it if you are wearing the "wrong" things. Imagine: even the most talented actresses cannot be reincarnated as their characters without proper external "framing". To get used to the role of Catherine the Great, actress Marina Aleksandrova daily changed into fluffy dresses, pulled her waist with a tight corset, and put on a heavy crown. As a result, a real transformation took place - from the external to the internal - and a strong, strong-willed ruler, whom it is impossible not to believe, appeared on the screens before the audience.
This technique works not only on the stage, but also in real life. The first thing to do in order to "start" the transformation into a lady-dream of successful men is to change the wardrobe to a more feminine one. You will be helped by:
- Airy dresses from "flying" fabrics
- Pencil skirts
- Sheath dresses
- Pumps with medium heels
Try to give up unisex clothes - baggy boyfriend jeans and oversized sweatshirts hide the dignity of your figure, while adding non-existent pounds to you. Of course, you should not give up on trousers and sweaters, but try to select these wardrobe items in such a way that they look as feminine and sophisticated as possible. Clothes should emphasize your dignity - focus on a lush chest, long legs or a wasp waist. A well-chosen wardrobe will give you confidence and attract the attention of successful men.
Femininity shining from within
Feminine appearance is just the beginning of transformation. To become the ideal of successful men, try to look at yourself from the inside, feeling what is happening on an energetic level. It has been tested: men react much more vividly to women who "give out" emotions, having previously passed them through themselves. Do you want to smile at the man you like? Don't rush to fix it on your face. First, feel what you are putting into the gesture, touch the inner emotion with all the fibers of your soul, and only then allow a smile to bloom on your face. You yourself will feel an unusual, pleasant state that will be passed on to the man. An interesting exercise will save you from the need to "fake" - now you will share with others only those emotions that you really experience. Over time, you will learn to react “from the inside” to every situation,living it more consciously, balanced, and most importantly - for real.
To learn how to communicate with your inner “I” and understand your true emotions, you need to figure out what “season” you are a woman. I have developed a system of four seasons, reflecting the different conditions of women.
Winter woman
A cold queen or a dry office diva who treats everything with bias. This is a woman for whom men are "not the same", and in general, you can do without them in this life. This is the woman who boldly throws the man “conquer me”, also clings to him with her feigned inaccessibility.
Summer Woman
Hot, sultry and hot woman lover. This is exotic and shocking, it is brightness and excessive attention-getting. These are magnetic hunt diva who take their gaze on the sight. If this is your state, albeit on several layers of rose (bright clothes, excessive body language and seductiveness of movements, words with sexual connotations, directed multi-speaking emotions at a man, etc.), you will not get rid of the regiment of lovers. Men will only see you as a mistress, not a woman-wife.
Autumn Woman
This is perhaps the most undesirable state of a woman, because in it she attracts mainly weak men or petty "tyrants", gigolo or swindlers who take advantage of her cordiality and kindness, as well as her willingness to give all of herself. These are women who play the roles of "woman-drama", "woman-mother". They are compassionate, sincere, sweet, who have accumulated tanks of love and are waiting for the one who will come to them, on whom it will be possible to pour tons of feelings, affection and care. You want to run away from such women.
Of all four states, this is the most unattractive! And it is in this state that women most often come to my trainings …
Spring woman
It is the opposite of "autumn". This is the state of the image of the "wife". This is girlhood and tenderness of sexuality in a swollen bud, and subtlety of eroticism in a slightly blossoming flower. It is in this incarnation that the maximum woman manifests itself, and one should strive for him in order to find complete harmony with oneself and the world.
To awaken the inner "rose of femininity" will help:
- Dance lessons. Smooth movements will help to liberate your body, allowing it to literally "saturate" with femininity
- Creation. Scientists have proven that any creative process significantly increases femininity. The fact is that in the process of creativity, a woman completely merges with him, as a result, becoming a single whole with him. As you create, you accumulate feminine energy, allowing it to flow and transform you step by step. The most important rule is that the creative process should give you pleasure, regardless of whether you are knitting a sweater or painting a picture.
- Feminine behavior. Try to act like a real woman with men. Leave toughness and excessive ambition for situations in which they are truly appropriate. Next to a man, be softer and more tender, “sound” quieter and in a chant. Then he will begin to listen to you, getting real pleasure from your communication. Do not forget that light, pleasant and positive emotions can “turn on” everyone, even the most successful men.
Say no to the male state. Let your chosen one be a man, do not try on the role of "strong and independent". Next to such a woman, a man may involuntarily ask himself the question: “What am I doing here? After all, she can do everything herself, without me. " In life, there are different situations - from a broken wheel on the road to a faulty shower in the bathroom. Remember: this is a male hypostasis, and, instead of grabbing a jack or monkey wrench, call a man you know. He will certainly gladly come to your aid, relieving you of an unpleasant situation and allowing you to further develop your inner femininity.
Technique of seduction "Jacket"
The "Jacket" technique is my original technique, which I developed specifically for women who want to learn how to seduce successful men. It is very popular with all my students, because it works 100% of the time. Technique of seduction "Jacket" can be used on a date with a man in a restaurant, wanting to attract maximum attention to yourself and increase his interest.
Considering the fact that the overwhelming majority of men “turn on” to female physiology, it is important to learn how to properly interact with your body. When going on a date, put on a beautiful blouse with a deep neckline, and a simple jacket on top. Sitting with a man at a table and wanting to “activate” him completely, accidentally unbutton your jacket, showing your companion the neckline that was hidden under it. Try to keep your conversation fairly serious at this point. Start a conversation about String Theory, The Shakespearean Question, The Big Bang - in a word, about what you really understand. Continue to casually take off your jacket, playing with your body and showing the man the beauty of the figure. Try to be as natural and at ease as possible. You will see - a man will literally be "magnetized" on a luxurious neckline,at the same time it will be pleasantly surprised by your mind.
Revealing your inner femininity, you will begin to rapidly move forward towards a happy marriage with a successful man. I, Julia Lanske, wish you to find true harmony with yourself, which will inevitably lead you to the relationship of your dreams.
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