Irina Druzhinina (@ mrs.druzhinina), a blogger, mother of two, host of the “PP Life” column at the TVC, told BeautyHack how to maintain family relationships and what mistakes are best avoided.
Mistake # 1: total control
We, women, always try to control men, we want to know where they are, with whom they are, and we do not always consciously do this. And it seems to me that control is the most common mistake. Excessive suspicion and suspicion harm relationships. Believe me, you will still find out about real betrayal, and petty non-binding flirting is not worth your attention. A man always wants to feel like a king and such habits of an alpha male are the norm for maintaining his own crown and ego. Instead of unnecessary quarrels, it is better to give your partner positive emotions and pleasantly surprise. A spontaneous trip abroad, for example, is always a good idea.
Mistake # 2: unkempt appearance
A tortured and unkempt woman a priori cannot be an object of desire. Remember that men love with their eyes. In a difficult work rhythm, do not forget about yourself. This is extremely important. Good time management as well as time for yourself are important ingredients in a relationship. Do not love yourself - no one will. Always remember to self-criticize. If you think you need to lose a couple of pounds, be sure to do it. Destroy everything in yourself that may seem ugly to you. Improve, harmonize, but without fanaticism - women tend to get carried away.
Mistake # 3: unwillingness to cook
“I don't have time to cook,” is a very common female phrase. It is pleasant for a man to eat at home, to feel the hearth, even if he says something else out loud. Always take the time to cook and create your home. In the process, you also harmonize the feminine principle.
Mistake # 4: conflicts
Yes, it happens with every couple, but find the strength to find a consensus. Be the wise part of the relationship that flattens the corners. Know how to give in. At work, you can argue until you blue in the face and prove your own innocence, but in the family it only interferes.
Mistake # 5: lack of dynamics
Often people live in a constant household routine, which then seizes all family members. Don't forget to please yourself. An evening at the cinema, a weekend in a hotel near Moscow, joint trips to the spa - all this helps a lot to relieve accumulated stress and diversify relationships. In general, remember that life is movement. Don't sit still! Go ahead and enjoy life with your family and loved ones.