It seems to me that every person sometimes has a feeling: you are standing in one place and do not understand where to go next. It seems that you already know yourself well and have made up your mind in life, but all the same, it is as if something is missing. All motivational books have been read and lectures listened to, but the only thing you want is to immerse yourself in yourself. Some at this moment often turn to psychologists, others - to astrologers. I decided to try a trend that is gaining popularity all over the world - human design. This method seemed to suit me the best: no need to waste time getting used to a stranger who will sort out your life by cogs. And I have no confidence in the stars - it seems to me that they can be wrong. Here, it seems obvious: strengths and weaknesses are highlighted for you, they are given advice on how to work them out. Anyway,if you don't like something, you can end the session or not follow the recommendations after.
You can find out your characteristics on human design online: there are many sites for this request. However, I decided to do a personal alignment with an expert. Still, this approach gives more information and a minimum of water and unnecessary phrases. Plus, you yourself can assess whether you coincide with the person, whether you are ready to trust him. It's like buying a new foundation online or in a store - like the same thing, but with a tint in the second case, you definitely can't go wrong. Having studied many specialists in human design, I turned to Alena Danilkina (@danilkina_producer), who also works as a celebrity producer, using the sacred knowledge gained in ashrams in the practice of show business.
What is Human Design
Human design does not predict the future, but rather helps describe the unique nature of each person. The teaching is built on a mixture of Chinese philosophy, astrology, the Hindu chakra system, and Kabbalah. That is, this is not about a magic pill - spread the map and change your life for the better, but about the opportunity to know yourself deeper, so that, with only your own efforts, you realize how to become a better version of yourself and achieve more. Specialists of the direction are sure that we are born with already established character traits and tasks, only sometimes, due to the flow of information and imposed beliefs, it is difficult for us to truly recognize ourselves.
“We all come to this planet with specific destinations. And we cannot become what we are not. Our main goal is to live according to our strategy, to fulfill our role,”explained Alena Danilkina. But at the same time, she added that in the card you can recognize certain periods in which certain character traits will manifest better. For example, before the age of 25, you may not think about a permanent job, and after that, you may find your purpose. But again: you can, if you yourself make an effort and understand your true desires.
According to human design, each of us belongs to one of four personality types (manifest, generator, manifest generator, and projector). Also, planets, genetic codes (they can also be seen on the map) affect our characteristics. At the same time, each person is unique, because several factors help to make a characteristic at once - the date, time and place of birth.
How human design helped me
Our conversation with an expert on Skype could resemble a session with a psychologist. Only I didn't have to say anything about myself: Alena, not knowing me, named my main character traits, talked about my strengths and weaknesses, about how I see myself, how others see me. She also named some points that I should pay special attention to. So, according to the map, it is not recommended for me to agree to do something on emotions, so that later I do not go with the thought "why did I get involved in this." I should also live only by response and listen to myself and not to others. Otherwise, you will still have to return to the starting point and work through the situation again. We also talked a little about my future: in terms of design, I should decide on all my dreams before a certain date, because then it will be more difficult to realize them.
It was interesting to know about my destiny. I seemed to know about this in my subconscious before, but I was afraid to admit it to myself.
Now everything became clearer, after the conversation I thought about it for a long time and felt that it really was the case.
The only misunderstanding was the recommendation to try myself in another field of activity, similar to my profession. Honestly, while I do not see myself very well in this. But Alena said that this is normal, perhaps the time has not yet come for this realization, everything is ahead. And as an example, she cited Sati Kazanova, with whom she has been working for a long time as a producer: Sati's human design had the makings of creating her own business, but at the time her card was laid out, it was hard to imagine such a thing. However, now we know that Sati is the creator of the Sati Ethnica ethnic music project. Moreover, this year she retired from pop music to fully devote herself to her work.
What else can you find out at an individual consultation
Unfortunately, I do not know the exact time of my birth, so my layout, although it seemed detailed to me, was very general. But if you have this information, then the map will help you find out many more interesting points - the right type of food, a favorable place to live, what can motivate you, how your mind reacts to certain situations. And in this case, the consultation will not last an hour, like mine, but from two hours. Also, you can request a separate review of your design from an expert in only one area: business, finding a purpose, compatibility with a partner, etc.
I also liked that the session took place in a rather meditative form, Alena did not impose anything, but she helped to think about her beliefs and even believe in herself in some way. I don't know if she was able to "read" me thanks to the map or because she is a good psychologist, but, in any case, human design can be a good tool for knowing oneself and determining plans for the future.